To the single girl still waiting: I know your pain.I know your joy and the ups and downs and the rollercoaster of emotions you experience. I know that there are days when you absolutely adore your freedom.We get dolled up and put on our best behavior to hopefully win an engagement proposal.Consider this: as our culture has gotten more experienced or “better” at dating, it seems we have gotten worse at marriage.I recently just had an awakening that this guy is not gonna do anything with his life. He even called my mom a b***h and a whore, which is like a big NO-NO. Now, he’s trying to act like he wants to do something with his life, which in a way it doesn’t seem fair because why did it have to take all of that for him to want to do something. Chile, I know they are kicking themselves everyday wondering how is it that you are their child. After 3 ½ years you finally get an awakening that he is not going to do anything with his life?He smokes weed and cigarettes constantly, drinks, stays out all night, works at Wendy’s, etc., and I decided I want better. In my opinion it’s like he’s trying to make me be with him. When you confront him he goes off on you, and then you had to call the police, TWICE! You stated, “Their advice is great and all, but…” And, then you stated, “My mother would always tell me that this was not the right guy for me, but I would always brush her advice off until recently.” So, why not listen and take heed? (My head is cocked to the side as I stare blankly at you).On the issue of online dating, or even dating in general, the Bible is void of examples.That’s because, like the internet, dating as we know it is a relatively new invention that didn’t exist throughout most of human history.
If you are eighteen and looking to settle down, I'm sorry buddy but you may find a few heartbreaks along the way.My mother would always tell me that this was not the right guy for me, but I would always brush her advice off until recently. I would like to be with someone who already has his life established, no kids, etc., and is just waiting on me to complete his life who by the way, my parents tolerates. Uhm, when you have to call the police on your mate or partner, then it’s time to end the relationship. If he can call your mother out of her name, then I can only imagine the names he has called and said to you. If it was such a big NO-NO, then why are you still with him? It’s obvious you don’t have any regard for yourself or parents. Girl, when you first met him and he was working at Wendy’s, smoking weed and drinking, and staying out all night. Ma’am, the moment he opened his mouth is when you should have exited and said, “No, thank you.I’m pretty fed up with this guy who I have been seeing for about 3 ½ years, so anything he does to try to impress me is like I have no more interest whatsoever. It’s time to say goodbye and let bygones be bygones. I really can’t believe that this clown is still living after he called your mother a b***h and whore. If he disrespects your parents, well, we already know that he disrespects you. I’m not interested.” What was enticing or intriguing about him? Do you mind if I write about dating and tell people we met on Tinder? Luckily, now being on the other side of the dating scene and having asked permission from Matt after a few drinks (picture the scene between courses at Tokeyo on Edward Street on Valentines Day - ME: "Babe, I've got something to ask.